The last couple of months my diary has been full of appointments with corporate clients and that area of business looks to be expanding more and more as the word is spreading about Conversational Decoding.

Every employer, employee, manager, CEO, mother or father have one thing in common, they all say that their people have the wrong attitude! So, what in the world is an ‘attitude’ and how on earth can you know if you have the right one to find yourself promoted up the career ladder, or to further enhance your relationships?

The above text is an extract from an article written by Matt Hudson for the MITA June ‘09 Newsletter. Download this months newsletter below and subscribe to receive news, tips and techniques every month for free.

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This article is by Matt Hudson the founder of MITA, an International NLP trainer and the creator of Conversational Decoding.

Is Love Blind?

How can it be February already? It seems only yesterday I was fighting off complaints from my postman about how large the sack full of Valentine cards was, that he had to carry to my door! I wish! …Dream on Hudson.

So this month that spring is reported to be in the air and as you are wondering about, you are probably noticing some couples who are made for each other. What about the couples who you can’t imagine together even under medication? You know the odd couple? So here is a question for this month is Love blind…?

I have had an influx of body mismorphia, people who look in the mirror and think they are ugly, hideous, and basically don’t like what they see. So maybe when we see these different shaped people and wonder how on earth are they together, could it be that one of them is mismorphic? Huge issues around self esteem, massive control freak, can’t take a compliment, wouldn’t be seen dead without make up, self conscious, and all the while their friends say “you look amazing, gorgeous, beautiful, sound confident, etc, Does this ring any bells with you?

So with all of this going on inside your mind about yourself how on earth can we ever find time to love another? Robert Frost said “Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired” Now how does that make you feel ? Cor! You mouth watering human being you are irresistible!!! Now, if you can hold onto that thought for a moment and look yourself in the eye in front of a large mirror, you should be able to see that beautiful creation, smiling back at you, now say I”I love you” if you can say that and feel good about you then well done, if not… who you gonna call…? There is a proverb which says “Love is blind, but friendship closes its eyes.” So now are we saying that love transcends the physical form, hmmm! So that would help us to understand a little more about why, as Joe Jackson put it “pretty woman are out walking with gorillas down my street” So it really is more about what you experience whilst in the company of your lover that makes them your lover. So , that love can only change if you change how you feel about your partner, it’s not down to your partner to make you feel in love with them. Yes it’s that word “Responsibility” and it lies with you, always. You can draw some solace with the words of Rabbi Julius Gordon who said “Love is not blind- it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.” Now for you love birds out there please note love starts and ends with you. If you have had a bad experience in a past relationship you may need it reprogrammed so that you can fully experience your new partner other wise you may find yourself stuck!…

Happy Valentines

This article is by Matt Hudson the founder of MITA, an International NLP trainer and the creator of Conversational Decoding.

Happy new year to you! Have you made your usual commitment to change?
Getting slimmer, fitter, healthier, are you only one letter away from fit?
So what are you going to do about it? You know you can change, some of you know you should change and yet only a few of you will truly change isn’t that so?

Why is that to know and not to do is really not to know at all? Do yourself a favour, why not commit to pen and paper or an email and tell me about how this time you are really going for it and I can give you a few helpful tips on how to succeed, do we have a deal? You could apply Cartesian Logic to yourself which basically says “what will I get if I do it? What will I get if I don’t do it? What wont I get if I do it? What wont I get if I don’t do it? You could always pay us a visit and let us help you, now there’s a thought!

Speaking of getting me in I would like to say a special thank you to the Educational Psychologist who suggested parents bring their son to work with me after 12 months of intervention had failed. Well my 12 year old client’s problem has vanished and according to all concerned the chap has transformed. So a really big thanks you to you all for trusting me, to help. This also means that I won’t be ranting about Ed.Psyche’s this year especially the ones in Northumberland (thank you for restoring my faith).

The recommendation went along the lines of “I am not allowed to recommend anyone but if he was my son I would take him to see Matt Hudson” I was truly pleased to help.

2008 for me is about putting more back into the universe so I am planning on getting back into a lot more schools and helping more children, so please if you are a teacher chase me up and let’s see how are team can help you and your children. I am also working on taking my “Laughter Workshop” on the road to fund raise for cancer Charities, I figure that this should stand me in good stead with whoever is running the universe, don’t you think? This last point is by no means intended to poke fun at Mr Brown, honest!

Another change this year is doing some 3 hour classes for self hypnosis and stress management and motivation so if you want to get committed before you get committed please get in touch and for a fraction of the cost you too can be well on your way to a greater and brighter future.

So I have kept it short and sweet this month as I am off to Vegas for a hypnotherapy convention and I can’t wait.

So to sum it all up Do it! Do it now and Do it for you!!!

NLP it’s about choice…